
Erika Jayne Faces Legal Limbo As Tom Girardi’s Failing Health Stalls Bitter Divorce Saga
For Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Erika Jayne, what began as a dramatic divorce has turned into a protracted legal limbo. While the world watches the downfall of Tom Girardi—once a celebrated attorney now disgraced and convicted for fraud—Erika remains legally tied to a marriage she sought to end nearly four years ago. The gripping intersection of fame, criminal scandal, and courtroom confusion continues to intrigue both reality TV fans and legal watchers alike.

Erika Jayne, 53, filed for divorce from Tom Girardi in November 2020 after more than two decades of marriage. The split followed sweeping allegations that Girardi, now 85, embezzled millions from clients of his law firm. In August 2024, Girardi was found guilty of four counts of wire fraud. Yet despite the damning verdict and Erika’s legal moves, their divorce remains at a standstill.

The core reason: Girardi’s rapidly deteriorating mental health. Courts have struggled to determine if Girardi is competent for legal proceedings. Erika’s lawyer, Jim Wilkes, summed up the dilemma in a recent interview: “He was competent enough for trial, but not competent enough to decide what to do with him. The court can’t even decide whether to put him in a medical facility or prison. What has anybody gained?” Wilkes claims Erika’s only option may be to wait “until he dies.”

The lingering legalities have left Erika in the crosshairs of public suspicion and financial chaos. Though she has never been charged with a crime herself, Erika faces a staggering $24 million lawsuit from Girardi’s bankruptcy trustee. Her attorney claims she was left “with nothing in her name,” forced to downsize dramatically after losing her home and most belongings. Erika, who has appeared on RHOBH since 2015, continues to deny any knowledge of her husband’s fraudulent dealings.
Despite the personal and financial fallout, Erika has tried to move forward. She recently confirmed that she’s dating again, emphasizing in her own words, “I really need somebody to be intelligent… I’m a grown-up. Talk to me.” The stigma of marrying a much older, wealthy man—and criticism over her loyalty—remains. As Erika reflected on RHOBH, “I'm tired of having to justify my 20-year marriage. Go get a 20-year marriage, then come talk to me.”

With Tom Girardi’s sentencing still pending—and with no resolution on his competency or the divorce—the saga continues without easy answers. Erika’s story is one of fame embroiled in misfortune, as she confronts not only the breakdown of her marriage but also the heavy fallout from her ex-husband’s actions.
What do you think: Should Erika accept that a legal divorce will likely never come, or should the courts find a way to grant her freedom? Share your thoughts and follow the drama. Let us know your views in the comments below!