Big Ed Ends His Whirlwind 24-Hour Engagement, Calling It An Impulsive Mistake
In yet another dramatic twist in the saga of 90 Day Fiancé, star Big Ed Brown stunned fans by announcing the abrupt end of his lightning-fast engagement to superfan Porscha Raemond — less than a week after dropping to one knee just 24 hours after meeting her. The impulsive proposal and rapid breakup highlight the roller-coaster nature of Ed’s love life, capturing both the fast pace of reality TV romances and the very real complexities behind them.
Big Ed, 59, shared on Instagram on September 23 that he’s called off the engagement, admitting, “Love is a crazy thing... I did something that was impulsive.” After reflecting and speaking with his family, he realized commitment wasn’t what he truly wanted at this stage. “It’s too soon and it’s not really what I want, obviously. I wanna be single. So I wish her – Porscha – the best in life.” The reality star reiterated in stories that proposing was a “whirlwind and admittedly, a very impulsive moment.”
The romance sparked at a fan meet-and-greet in Plantation, Florida, where Ed described their instant chemistry as “love at first sight.” He gushed about Raemond to Page Six, calling her a “beautiful Italian dish” and his “dream girl.” That very next night at YOLO restaurant in Fort Lauderdale, swept up in the excitement, Ed fashioned a paper clip into a makeshift ring and got down on one knee. The proposal reportedly sent the whole restaurant into cheers as Porscha tearfully said yes during their whirlwind 24-hour romance.
However, the fairytale fizzled as quickly as it had ignited. Ed’s sudden change of heart after talking with loved ones suggests that despite the initial passionate spark, a lasting relationship requires more than just instant chemistry. His rapid reconsideration prompts reflection on the intense emotional highs of quick connections—and the wisdom in taking time before such a monumental decision.
This isn’t Big Ed’s first foray into lightning-fast or turbulent relationships on-screen. Fans watched his tumultuous journey with Liz Woods during season 8 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After, where they famously ended their engagement for the fifteenth—and seemingly final—time. Liz has since moved on to new boyfriend Jayson, whom she introduced during the reunion, while Ed expressed hope for her happiness and admitted she “will always be part of my life.” Before Liz, viewers recall Ed’s engagement to Rose on Before the 90 Days season 4, another romance that came with its ups and downs.
Big Ed’s latest romantic saga underlines familiar themes in the 90 Day universe: the intoxicating allure of rapid romance, the haste of impulsive decisions, and the sober realities that follow. While whirlwind relationships and dramatic breakups are reality TV staples, Ed’s story also serves as a real-life cautionary tale about the need for reflection and genuine connection over speed.
As 90 Day Fiancé continues to stream on Discovery+, fans remain captivated by its stars’ romantic triumphs and missteps—proof that matters of the heart can be as unpredictable as reality TV itself. What do you think about Big Ed’s engagement roller coaster? Share your thoughts and join the conversation below!
